Monday, June 15, 2009

Question of the week!

In your opinion, what is the touchiest "parenting" topic? Breastfeeding? Co-bedding? Certain behaviors while pregnant?

Is it difficult to support someone when you totally disagree with what they are doing?

4 comments:

christina said...

Maybe breastfeeding early on, but long-term I think it's working v. stay-at-home moms. I feel very blessed to have a close group of girlfriends that truly do support eachother with the decisions we have each made (a couple of us are at home, others working part-time or full-time). We share highs and lows, and I think it helps us all realize there is no perfect solution, and you just have to trust in the right decision for your own family!

Also, I think women need to be very careful before outwardly judging others because you never know what situation you yourself will wind up in one day. I've known women that wanted to breastfeed or go natural during childbirth, but couldn't due to an extenuating circumstance...Others that wanted to work part-time but their career choice wouldn't allow it, some that want to stay home but couldn't make the finances work, etc. etc. etc.!

Nine Months And Forever said...

Christina, WELL SAID! I agree with the above! :) :)
Danielle

Kelly O'Donnell said...

Agreed! Another touchy point I seem to be on the receiving end of a lot of negative comments if it comes up is the decision I make to not use drugs during childbirth--I get everything from "you're crazy-no seriously, you're CRAZY" to persuading me against it with lots of negative talk. I wouldn't try to talk a runner out of a marathon even though *I* personally wouldn't want to attempt it, so I'm not sure why everyone feels it's okay to speak the same to me?!

A choice I try to be supportive of for my dear friend Christina but can't imagine doing--cloth diapers! Love you, but MAN that is a lot of extra poop and pee to deal with! ;)

Nine Months And Forever said...

I think the touchest subject is post-partum depression, not so much becasue it is controversial issue but because people ALWAYS try to tell you that you are fine or they are scared to talk about it. I think a lot of women are scared to talk about it bacuse they feel they will come across as "weak". Other's think there is nothing wrong until it to late. I can admit that i had some mild depression after my first but was embarassed and a little scared because i never had those feeling before. It went on for months before i finally decided i need to speak to my OB. It just seems everyone has thier opinion on the subject, TOM CRUISE. So i guess to sum up this rant, i just think it is a subject that should be more openly discussed and nothing to ever be embarassed about.

Also, well said Christina

KIM