Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Should twins be separated in the classroom?

What are your thoughts on this controversial subject?

Teachers?? Parents?? What are the pros and cons of twins being in a classroom together?

http://twinslaw.com/Welcome%20to%20Twins%20Law%20.%20Com.html

5 comments:

Nine Months And Forever said...

I'm a teacher and a I think at a young age twins should be seperated to develop their own socialization skills and to make friends independent of their twin.I've had two twins in my 7 years of teaching and they were both in class without their sibling. :)Maria

Kara said...
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Kara said...

As a twin mom, I think having twins in the same classroom is a personal choice. I can't say what I will want when my kids are ready for school. I think their personalities will help with the decision. I want them to grow as individuals, but I do not think that this will be impacted by either choosing to have them or not have them in the same classroom. I definitely will need to give this topic more thought!!

Nine Months And Forever said...

My thoughts on this have changed since I have become a mom to twins. As a teacher, I always thought they should be seperated but as a mom, I think it should be a personal choice for the family. I have recently learned from my twin mom friends that reseach shows that identical twins do much better when they are together in the classroom, especially in the earlier years. I am going to push to have my boys together for those first few years and then we will see from there.

Danielle

Jodi said...

My only experience comes from the classroom. I think it depends on the kids. Currently I have two twin girls who love being in class together, although they do not socialize with any of the other 28 kids in class. It is difficult as a middle school teacher when the twins are identical... I get them confused all of the time. In 50 minutes it is hard to get to know their personalities and they look alike... I feel bad everytime I call one of them by the wrong name. And if I get the right name, it is only because I guessed.

In years past I have had several sets of twins who hated being with their sibling. They wanted to be seen as an invidual not a "twin". I do think this is more about being a middle schooler and finding your own identity anyway.

Maybe leave it up to fate and let the principal decide the students placement like she does for every other kids placement. If they get placed together or apart, either scenario can be a unique learning situation.

:) Jodi