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Amy,her husband Sergio and their sons Gavin & Evan
Danielle, her husband Kevin and their four children: Jake, Ben, Luke & Lana
Motherhood: "The hardest job you will ever love!"
How many times a week do you bath your children, in the winter?
In light of Valentines Day, how many times a week do you and your hubby have sex?
At what age is it inappropriate to breastfeed your child?
When is it inappropriate to bath with the opposite sex child?
How much (combined) life insurance do you and your spouse have?
Do you and your spouse have a will prepared? (if not and you want to learn more, make sure to join us at our January meeting!)
How many nights a week do you cook dinner for your family?
In light of the recent Tiger Woods drama, what would you do if your husband cheated?
How many gifts did your kids get for the holidays?
Do you recycle gifts?
Has anyone had a VBAC (or on the flip side, a c-section after vaginal)? If so, which type of delivery would you prefer if you were able to choose for a future birth?
Has anyone in your family gotten the H1N1 flu?
What do you and your spouse fight about most?
NMF JUNKIES
Nine Months & Forever Club
About NMF
Philosophy: Through shared experiences, we believe women can learn and support each other while having fun!
Vision: While respecting the difference of each others' families, we can grow together.
Meetings: The club meets once a month. We will also have date nights, cooking classes, book clubs, charity work, play dates, and walking groups.
Suggested Meeting Topics: Nutrition, Vaccines, Child Development, Making Your Own Baby Food, Fashion, Skin Care, Interior Design, Personal Finance, Infant Massage, Love & Logic, Prenatal Care & Fitness, Marriage & Relationships, First Aid & Safety, Children's Literacy, Entertaining, Holiday & Children's Crafts, Gift Ideas, etc.
What To Think About For Each Meeting: Some of the meeting will take place in another location and will not be a standard meeting. For example, our September meeting will be our first "Date Night." For a standard meeting, please consider the following:
(Keep in mind, these are simply suggestions and we are not asking that you bring one from each category. Contribute as much as you wish! )
1. Gift Swap-Do you have a gift at home that someone else might find more useful? Bring it for our gift swap!
2. Pay It Forward-Have you read a really great article recently or any form of information that you would like to share with the group? If so, bring 20 copies to share at our next meeting!
3. Hot Tips-Have you heard of any fun fund raisers, cooking classes or any "Hot Tip" you want to post on our bulletin board to share with the group? If so, bring your tip with you to our meeting!
4. Idea Swap: Depending on the topic, it would be great if each guest brought an idea to share for our group conversation. Get your ideas down on paper and bring it along with you to the meeting to present to the group. If possible, make 20 copies to share or just bring your original and we can distribute copies for you at our next meeting.
Organizers: Amy & Danielle
About the Organizers: Danielle is a stay at home mom with three sons and a daughter. Amy is a part-time teacher with two sons. Both woman have bachelors and masters degrees in education.
Blog Discalmer: Information presented on this blog is believed to be accurate and reliable, however, NMF assumes no responsibility for any errors appearing in the information. Further, NMF assumes no responsibility for the use of the information provided. In some cases, the information may need to be updated. DO NOT RELY ON THE TEXT CONTAINED ON THIS WEBSITE IF THE PRECISE LANGUAGE IS IMPORTANT FOR YOUR PURPOSES.
Also, we welcome and appreciate various perspectives. Comments and postings are not necessarily the beliefs of all NMF members, if any. We believe we can learn and grow from being open to all.
NMF Meetings!
Past Topics: Making baby food and using healthy purees, mom & baby yoga, homeopathy- treating childhood aliments naturally, recipe exchange, cooking demonstrations, going green- riding your home of toxins, sex during pregnancy and after children, book clubs, gardening, date nights, girl's nights, vaccinations, baking demonstration, mother's day brunch, crafting- making your own holiday gift bags, charity walks, entertaining- cocktail demonstration, organization, etc.
Upcoming Events!
These are all tentative dates but thought you might like some advance notice on whats happening with NMF. We will let you know if there are any alterations to this schedule.
May: Traditional Mother's Day Brunch & Shopping Bizzare/Fundraiser. Proceeds will go to Autims Speaks.
June: 2 Year Anniversary!
Brainstorming session & Girls Night Out!
July: OFF
NMF YEAR THREE:
August: Pure Romance Party & Margarittas!
September: Speech Development and baby sign language presented by Emily.
October: Children's Crafts and the Autisim Charity Walk.
November: Traditional Holiday Recipe Exchange.
December: OFF
Keep checking this post for meeting updates!!!
Upcoming Events!
These are all tentative dates but thought you might like some advance notice on whats happening with NMF. We will let you know if there are any alterations to this schedule.
May: Traditional Mother's Day Brunch & Shopping Bizzare/Fundraiser. Proceeds will go to Autims Speaks.
June: 2 Year Anniversary!
Brainstorming session & Girls Night Out!
July: OFF
NMF YEAR THREE:
August: Pure Romance Party & Margarittas!
September: Speech Development and baby sign language presented by Emily.
October: Children's Crafts and the Autisim Charity Walk.
November: Traditional Holiday Recipe Exchange.
December: OFF
Keep checking this post for meeting updates!!!
NMF Organizer
Amy,her husband Sergio and their sons Gavin & Evan
NMF Organizer
Danielle, her husband Kevin and their four children: Jake, Ben, Luke & Lana
How may children would you like to have?
If you could get plastic surgery after your child bearing years, what would you get?
Which Hollywood mom do you admire the most?
Member's Recommendations, Books & Websites
http://www.ourstory.com/ This website creates an online story of your baby's life and you can send questions to your family to answer and add to the book -Jodi
http://www.babynamewizard.com/namevoyager/lnv0105.html
Love this tool to see how trendy a name (or various spellings) are. Also good if you think you want a name that starts with, say, "EL" but not sure what is out there besides Elizabeth and Ella.... -Kelly
http://www.babycheapskate.com/
Shows all the best sales on diapers and wipes per week, along with lots of other baby and kid deals -Kelly
http://www.babyfit.com/
Shows prenatal excercises you can do at any stage of pregnancy -Kelly
http://www.wholesomebabyfood.com/
How to make your own baby food -Kelly
http://www.babynamewizard.com/namevoyager/lnv0105.html
Love this tool to see how trendy a name (or various spellings) are. Also good if you think you want a name that starts with, say, "EL" but not sure what is out there besides Elizabeth and Ella.... -Kelly
http://www.babycheapskate.com/
Shows all the best sales on diapers and wipes per week, along with lots of other baby and kid deals -Kelly
http://www.babyfit.com/
Shows prenatal excercises you can do at any stage of pregnancy -Kelly
http://www.wholesomebabyfood.com/
How to make your own baby food -Kelly
For Your Information! (Interesting Articles & Websites)
Dr. Mercola has an excellent website/book. Read about the potential hazards of various vaccines. (submitted by Danielle)
http://www.mercola.com/2004/oct/30/mercury_vaccines_medicine.htm
Omega 3 for a pregnant MaMa & more! (submitted by Amisha)
Omega 3 can also help with depression ...studies are still inconclusive! Review backs antidepressant effects of omega-3s http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070816/hl_nm/omega3s_dc
Stop the compar-a-thon!! Great article about how moms tend to compare themselves to each other. (submitted by Jodi)
http://lifestyle.msn.com/familyandparenting/raisingkids/articlerb.aspx?cp-documentid=5222140
http://www.mercola.com/2004/oct/30/mercury_vaccines_medicine.htm
Omega 3 for a pregnant MaMa & more! (submitted by Amisha)
Omega 3 can also help with depression ...studies are still inconclusive! Review backs antidepressant effects of omega-3s http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070816/hl_nm/omega3s_dc
Stop the compar-a-thon!! Great article about how moms tend to compare themselves to each other. (submitted by Jodi)
http://lifestyle.msn.com/familyandparenting/raisingkids/articlerb.aspx?cp-documentid=5222140
MAMA STATS
80% of woman say their husbands would stay home to raise the kids
38% of working moms say they think they'd have more friends if they stayed home
46% of mothers find other mothers more competitive than helpful
77% of mothers check their email at least once a day
54% of mothers say their "mommy brain" is more likely to make them forget an item on the grocery list
8% of mothers said the "mommy brain" would most likely make them forget their child's name
38% of the females who graduated from the class of 1981, 1986 and 1991 from Harvard Business school are still working full time
Kimberly-Clark spent $10 million dollars in 2005 to promote Huggies online
A female oyster may produce over 100 million offspring in her lifetime
* Information taken from the article "It Figures" by Cynthia Washam
38% of working moms say they think they'd have more friends if they stayed home
46% of mothers find other mothers more competitive than helpful
77% of mothers check their email at least once a day
54% of mothers say their "mommy brain" is more likely to make them forget an item on the grocery list
8% of mothers said the "mommy brain" would most likely make them forget their child's name
38% of the females who graduated from the class of 1981, 1986 and 1991 from Harvard Business school are still working full time
Kimberly-Clark spent $10 million dollars in 2005 to promote Huggies online
A female oyster may produce over 100 million offspring in her lifetime
* Information taken from the article "It Figures" by Cynthia Washam
6 comments:
I agree that "overparenting" has gotten out of control. Personally, I try my best to keep our life simple for our kids. When we get too stressed out, it's time to slow down and take a look at what we can do eliminate some of the stress. I don't want to look back on these years and feel like they were a blur/whirlwind...I'd rather remember a fun time spent loving and enjoying my little kids :)
kind of a long article so I skimmed it a bit...agree w/ 90% of it but quite certain I still won't be putting my kids on the NYC subway alone anytime soon!
I do think it's a function of "group think" though, you feel like a bad parent if you are not overparenting to the degree of other parents. So you overparent, and then the next person feels like THEY have to do the same or more or they're the bad parent. Someone has to break the cycle! I'll do it! I admit I let my kid swallow her flouride toothpaste, play in our backyard without being present the entire time, and if she were 10 and wanted to ride the subway alone, I would let her! (I THINK!) :)
A site i like is www.freerangekids.com, written by the subway riding mom from NYC. I was a total freerange kid and feel bad a generation may miss the exhilaration of learning to navigate the world on your own. it's an important life skill we shouldn't undervalue instilling in our kids, as much as we value teaching them to be careful or to rely on us.
one thing I really wish more parents let their kids do is walk to school (if it's a walkable distance). I'm totally bummed that the way our city is zoned has us going to an Elem that we have to drive/bus to, rather than a closer one that my kids would in fact be able to walk to.
My husband and I talk about this a lot. We grew up riding our bikes around our neighborhood withOUT helmets, knee pads, etc. I do feel like a nervous mom and can't help but want to pad my kids to death when they start riding their bikes around town. My husband on the other hand believes you learn the "hard way!" Hopefully, we will balance each other out!! :) Danielle
I think when we "overparent" we make this job a lot harder on ourselves! I think there needs to be common sense in place, but not overreacting. I can see in my classroom the effects of overly parented kids- not sure how they will function as adults!
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